Racist with a plastered on mask, can you tell me why?

i have this friend who i have had for 13 year's we are very close. but, theres this huge thing that bother's me. she say's she's not prejadice but she make's comments when she's upset about black people and truthfully i have to say it upset's me.





she dates only black people, her kid's are mixed. black and white. so honestly i dont get it.





she refer's to them as loud and obnoxious. when theres a time to speak up she say's i should act black cus you know they wouldnt put up wiht any nonsence. she imitates them speaking with a country accent, snapping her finger's all over the place and rolling her head. this is her version of a black person. (i dont agree)


she doesnt think they have any class. it just makes me flipping up set. she makes soooo many comment's talking about the ghetto ect...





so why is someone who doestn hold this race in high regard or rather equal regard to everyone else. only date black people have mixed children, have black friend's?





thought's please?Racist with a plastered on mask, can you tell me why?
Has she had a relationship (or more than one) with an african-american that ended horribly? She may be reflecting on that one (or more) situations and generalizing them to the entire population. It's definitely not healthy for her to respond this way, especially when her children are biracial and need the support and reassurance of both races, (which is very hard to come by in our culture anyway, but the mother should definitely adhere to this for her children's sakes). Really, my only thought is that with all the stereotypes and remarks, that she has projected her negative feelings of one or more relationship onto the entire race. I hope she can overcome this someday.Racist with a plastered on mask, can you tell me why?
She sound like a two faced scum bag racist! Enouph said.
How come you are so close , yet you have such different views? lv Jo xx
She seems to be fascinated with something about black people - culture, skin color, whatever. She seems to be trying to immerse herself in black culture. She seems to be seeing it through what appear to be anger-based stereotypical images. She needs to mature past that and begin to experience black people as real human beings.
maybe she sees herself as black i spent lots of with black people at work. And they would often make fun of the stereotypical image of themselves in a very playful manner calling each other N^^^r etc talking in exgerated accents maybe since she is surrounded but that culture thats what is doing rather then be racist